How to Save Your Marriage On Your Own


How to Save Your Marriage On Your Own

How to Save Your Marriage On Your Own-One of the most common questions spouses ask when confronting a marriage crisis is this: How can I save my marriage if my partner doesn't want to help find a solution? How do I succeed I am trying to save my marriage on my own?

It is a typical enough story: one partner leaves, the other stays. One remains 'in love', the other is uncertain. Whatever it is that has caused a couple to be apart, the one person who remains bears the prospect, fear, doubt, desire, hope of saving his or her marriage' ALONE. 


Considering there are two people contributing to the overall health and wellbeing of a marriage, shouldn't both of you be present to actually try and save it? Or, worse, when it's his, her, their fault so shouldn't he, she, they be the ones to make amends? You're just the victim here, after all!


The first thing you must know is if you want to save your marriage and if you find yourself alone in this desire, waiting for the other spouse to make the first move is the beginning of the end. If you are looking for someone to blame or someone else to put the emotional and physical work into saving the marriage, again, it's going to fail.


The belief that the responsibility lies with the other person is a self-defeating attitude.  It propagates the belief that there is absolutely NOTHING you can do to save your marriage and you should stand and watch what comes your way. 


NOT true! 


There is still something you CAN DO. Even in your loneliness and solitude, you CAN save your marriage. 


How? Let's begin first by examining what it means to be on your own. 


As human beings, we hate being alone. It's part of our genetic make up to be social creatures and develop connections with others, whether through friendships or romantic interest. The way we connect with others and the nature of how we interact with people is a fundamental aspect of personal and emotional development.


The paradox is that as we grow older in the love, trust, companionship and support of our significant others, we develop an internal strength of self that makes us whole, happy human beings. Ideally, the mature human person should have developed a strong sense of self-awareness, confidence and self-esteem as he or she reaches adulthood. These become the windows with which we view the world, flaws and all. These make up part of our personal shelter amidst challenges and difficulties. This is called SELF-ACTUALIZATION.


However, many of us enter into adult life without even being aware of this beautiful, human truth. We may have experienced abandonment in our childhood or been disappointed by our romantic relationships; whatever it is, it has caused to shift from proper mature development to fears of abandonment and the inability to see that we can stand on our own two feet. 


Thus, many of us enter relationships and marriages with the hope, plan and dream that we would never be alone. We invest so much in our partners and loved ones, focusing our entire beings on them and relying on them to make us happy and secure. Unfortunately, this perspective carries with it its own poison. Subconsciously, we project the responsibility of our life happiness on the other person, eloquently sidestepping taking responsibility for our own life happiness and destiny. 


Problems develop when a partner indicates some form of dissatisfaction with the relationship or the expectations unwittingly placed upon them, and when they do so, we panic. When our partner leaves, our fears kick in. When something goes wrong with our marriages, it is very easy for us to place the blame of the other person for having made us unhappy.


In order to save your marriage when you are the only one doing it, the key then is a paradigm shift, meaning, the key is to change your attitude and focus. Stop focusing on your partner - stop the blaming, stop the inaction. 


Take a good look at yourself and what you can do in this moment. You can definitely NOT control your partner's feelings, attitude and reactions, but you can control your own.  You can go from fearing abandonment to actually taking responsibility for yourself and your own happiness. 


This is where the human truth about self-actualization comes in. Understand, adapt and internalize this for yourself. Learn it. It will spell the difference not just in your marriage but in YOU. 


A whole human being is easy to love. A happy person attracts happiness. In starting with yourself, you can move from being an unhappy, clingy, difficult person to one who can provide an environment of safety, wisdom, trust and open communication. If each of you are able to self-sustain when it comes to taking responsibility for your own life happiness, you both have much less baggage and much more genuine love to bring into the relationship. Your motivation shifts from being one of fear to being one of real love.


Rather than beat yourself up in desperation, try these tips to start your own personal transformation and lead your marriage to success:


- Breathe

- Smile

- Let go

- Believe that reconnection is possible

- See a counselor for YOURSELF not just for your marriage

- Examine your part in contributing to the difficulties in your marriage

- Forgive yourself

- Change

- Look after your health, beauty and well-being


For all you know, your partner (and you) may just rediscover the person they first fell in love with and more. For all you know, this is the type of you that would allow your partner to come back and initiate communication. When that happens, you have every opportunity to sit down with him or her, discuss your motivations, plans and feelings. You can even get to the real issues surrounding your marital difficulties and actually begin taking positive steps to work them through.


In being open and mature, you can also provide an environment where love and intimacy can flourish once more. With all the confidence and sincerity you have gathered, take these steps. Plus one more. Even in your separation, conflict or difficulties, find it in you to continue loving your partner and showing him or her that you do. Through little, subtle acts, like preparing a snack for him or her or spending some quality TV time, you can rekindle love in your marriage. They don't have to be grand gestures, they just have to be sincere. And coming from the mature, new you, they will. 


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Reasons For Using Teeth Whitening Products


Reasons For Using Teeth Whitening Products

 Reasons For Using Teeth Whitening Products-By whitening your teeth, you eliminate stains caused by smoking, wine, coffee, cola, soda and other foods. Moreover a bright smile helps you to stop smoking. This is because, when you see your shining teeth, you don't want to stain them with cigarettes.

It is a fact that with the aging process, teeth become yellow. The colour of your teeth gives clues about your age. If you invest in whitening your teeth, you look and feel more young and healthy. As a result, you no longer have to hide those discoloured teeth and you can smile as much as you can. You feel more confident in yourself and achieve more positive interactions with society. When you smile, you feel happy and more prepared to face life's challenges.

Studies have shown that white teeth can improve your relationships and you appeal more to the other sex. You are more noticed when you are choosing the right mate. Many people look for bright teeth when they are dating a partner.

In addition a bright smile contributes to a greater success at work. A nice smile conveys a message of intelligence and responsibility in a working environment. Clients will approach you more and prefer you over others.

People of any age can invest in a shining smile without undergoing surgical procedures. Today there are cheap and safe alternatives that you can do. These over-the-counter remedies are harmless and risk-free and are easily managed by everyone: young and old. Moreover, bright teeth are not difficult to maintain.

Prevent bad breath

 


Prevent bad breath


 Prevent bad breath-Although many people experience chronic bad breath, also known as halitosis, it can often be prevented by practicing several key habits. Here are some important ways to avoid developing bad breath that you can build into your daily routine.

Make sure you stay hydrated. Drinking plenty of water keeps your mouth moist and stimulates the production of saliva, which helps wash away odor-causing food particles and bacteria from your teeth, gums, and tongue. Avoid sugary and acidic drinks, as these can damage teeth and leave odor-causing food deposits in the mouth.

Limit the amount of coffee and alcohol that you consume. In addition to leaving a pungent smell that is difficult to remove from your mouth, these drinks can lead to a dry mouth. Bad breath often occurs as a result of dry mouth, which limits saliva flow and causes smelly deposits of bacteria and food to linger in the tongue, teeth, and gums.

Do not smoke or use other tobacco products. If you do smoke, see your doctor or dentist for tips on quitting the habit. In addition to causing bad breath from toxic chemicals and drying out the mouth, smoking increases the risk of developing gum disease and oral cancer.

Switch to sugarless gum and mints. Sugarless gum and mints do not leave the sugary deposits in your mouth that contribute to unpleasant breath and tooth decay. In addition to temporarily improving breath quality, using sugar-free gum and mints can improve saliva flow when consumed after a meal, thereby combating the long-term causes of bad breath.

Maintain healthy oral hygiene with regular brushing of your teeth, tongue, and gums, as well as flossing. Cleaning your teeth after every meal and snack will help maintain a clean, odor-free mouth. Using an antibacterial mouthwash daily can also help prevent odor. See your dentist for routine cleanings and exams to ensure continual oral health and to ask any questions about dental hygiene.

Symptoms of Sleep Apnea

Symptoms of Sleep Apnea


Symptoms of Sleep Apnea


Symptoms of Sleep Apnea-Over 100 million people suffer from sleep apnea worldwide. Of these individuals, approximately 80% are currently undiagnosed and are at risk for extensive health complications. Sleep apnea is a potentially dangerous sleep disorder that involves repeatedly paused breathing. Those who have sleep apnea often snore loudly and feel exhausted even after a full night's sleep.

An estimated one in 25 middle-aged men and one in 50 middle-aged women have sleep apnea. Ethnic groups such as African-Americans, Hispanics, and Pacific Islanders are more likely to develop sleep apnea than are Caucasians. This condition occurs in two primary forms. In central sleep apnea, the brain does not send appropriate signals to the muscles responsible for breathing. In obstructive sleep apnea, however, the throat muscles relax to the point of hindering airflow. This latter form of sleep apnea is the more common type, affecting middle-aged males predominantly.

Sleep apnea involves several primary symptoms, which may be noticed by the patient or by their sleep partner, roommate, or other household members. If you suffer from sleep apnea, you are often aware of symptoms such as excessive daytime sleepiness, memory and concentration difficulties, headaches, frequent urination during the night, and sweating and chest pain during sleep. Other symptoms are more obvious to your sleep partner and others; these include loud snoring, restless tossing and turning during sleep, nighttime choking or gasping, and frequent pauses in breathing.

These symptoms are generally caused by airway obstruction as a result of enlarged throat tissue or poor airway-muscle tone. If you suffer from these symptoms, see your doctor for a physical exam. He or she may refer you to a specialist for a sleep assessment like a polysomnogram, which measures various body functions during sleep to determine the severity of your breathing impairment. Based on these diagnostics, your medical team will be able to help treat your sleep apnea and to prevent any associated side effects to your cardiovascular health.

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Deep Relaxation Technique

 Deep Relaxation Technique


Deep Relaxation TechniqueA few months back, a friend introduced something to me, claiming that "it's one of the best products I've ever seen, man! You gotta try it!"

Apparently not only was it affordable, it could cure me of practically any disease known to man.



Yeah. Right.

You'll have to excuse my flippant tone because... seriously? If that isn't too good to be true, I don't know what is.

Let's face it: When someone comes along raving about a product that claims to be able to cure "any disease known to man," you think "bull$%!t."

That was my exact reaction the first time my friend raved about Pure Reiki Healing.

And for good reason, too.

You see, I've suffered from rashes and eczema since I was a kid, and trust me when I tell ya, it ain't fun. I need to get regular jabs to alleviate the symptoms of my very annoying condition, so not only is it not fun, it's expensive too.

So when I was recommended Pure Reiki Healing - a home study course about Reiki... something I had absolutely the faintest idea of - I scoffed at the mere idea.

How could a simple home study course about something I had never even heard of succeed where modern medicine had failed time and time again?

My friend wouldn't let up about it, insisting that I give it a shot.

So to shut him up, I did.

And to my surprise... it's not half bad.

In order for you to understand why it isn't half bad, you need to first understand what it's all about.

Pure Reiki Healing delves into an Oriental healing art called "Reiki".

According to Owen Coleman - the creator of the program - the original art of Reiki was developed in the 1920s, by a Japanese Buddhist named Mikao Usui.

Reiki makes use of the universal energy force Ki, or Chi, and manifests it for self-healing purposes, or to heal others.



According to the theory of Ki, people fall ill because the Ki is unable to flow smoothly to the different parts of the body, resulting in a blockage that hinders the natural flow of Ki.

Now, for someone pragmatic like myself, you might think that I might scoff at the idea of "energy" and "blockages" having anything to do with physical ailments.

To be honest, I did scoff at the idea.

Initially, at least.

Then I thought, "I already have the program, I've spent my money, why not just try for the heck of it?"

I did give it a try, and I have to admit... I'm glad that I gave Pure Reiki Healing a shot.

Why?

For starters, Pure Reiki Healing consists of 3 manuals, videos, Reiki meditation music, and a certification system that you can use to generate your very own certificate once you've completed the home study course.

This program is all about healing, and covers a variety of healing techniques for daily ailments that the common, "average Joe" might suffer from in this day and age.

Stuff like colds, flus, fevers, digestive disorders, sinus problems, neck and shoulder tension, anger, heart problems... even spinal issues... almost anything you can think of, Pure Reiki Healing has it covered, promising that you can alleviate such conditions with Reiki self treatment techniques.

For anyone who's suffering from any type of chronic disease, that makes for a very convincing buy, especially when you consider the one-time price of the program itself versus the huge bill waiting for you at the end of every trip to the doctor's.

(It's worse for those of us who aren't covered under a proper insurance plan.)

Yet, Pure Reiki Healing is not just about giving you the tools to cure yourself, but rather the opportunity to change your life for the better.

The program also reveals the 5 Reiki Principles that will help you achieve balance and substance in your life, an example of this being, "Just for today, I will not worry."

Now that - at first glance - may seem simplistic, but the idea behind invoking such an affirmation is to remind us that our worries affect our bodies just as much as it affects our minds, so by cleansing ourselves of worry from both body and mind is the first step to enriching our health, and ultimately the quality of our life.

Pure Reiki Healing seems to have been created in such a way that the program not only allows you to self heal, but also to enable you to give the gift of healing to others.

Once you've mastered the healing techniques and received the necessary attunements, you're able to use your newfound healing abilities on your loved ones, to alleviate their ills - both physical and mental - and enrich their lives as well.

Pure Reiki Healing, with its scope of healing aspects and broad range, allows you to take what you learn and use it to help others.

What makes this a worthy buy is the demonstration videos, which show and explain every technique step by step, as if you were attending a live Reiki demonstration, right there in the comfort of your own living room.

That, for me, definitely helped speed things along in my education of Reiki.

I've already completed the entire course - all 3 levels of Reiki - within just 2 weeks, and since then I've not only been able to treat my rashes and eczema, but also I feel that much healthier, more vibrant than I have ever felt in years.

Because of that - and its affordability - I can confidently say that Pure Reiki Healing is a recommended buy.



How lack of sleep affects your baby's brain and personality

How lack of sleep affects your baby's brain and personality


 How lack of sleep affects your baby's brain and personality

How lack of sleep affects your baby's brain and personality-A leading researcher on temperament in infants and young children once said in despair, “When I raised my first child, I believed behavioral theories claiming that what I do as a parent molds my child’s character. With my second child, I was already a geneticist and believed that a child is born with characteristics that are passed on through heredity and that environmental influence is minimal. I barely knew my third child at all...” 

This analysis was, of course, exaggerated, but it demonstrates the ongoing quest of parents and scientists to answer this question: what determines the personality and personal characteristics of the child? 

The question of heredity (“She got her shyness from her dad’s family”) versus environment (“If his mother were more strict with him, he would be calmer”) underlies parents’ attempts to understand the range of influence they have in molding their child.

Up-to-date research points to a complex picture: the influence of heredity and environment on the child. Much evidence suggests that the baby is born with genetic baggage that not only determines how he looks, the color of his eyes, and his chances of suffering from various diseases but also significantly influences the character traits that he or she will develop.

Physical activity level, shyness or sociability, openness to new situations, and anxiety are among the traits that are related to the genetic predisposition with which babies enter the world. Many parents discover that their child has traits that are undesirable to them—especially if they remind them of qualities they dislike about their parents, their spouses, or themselves. 

Parents frequently try to fight these traits, but they often discover that it is a losing battle. 

It seems that the most important variable that influences the quality of the relationship between parents and children is the “goodness of fit” between the child’s traits and the parents’ expectations. 

A very active child, for example, may be adored by a father who appreciates and identifies with this trait but merely tolerated by a father who expects a calmer child. 

On the other hand, a quiet, calm child may be considered depressive or lifeless by the first father, while the second father sees her as perfect. 

Incompatibility between parental expectations and the child’s traits may lead to frustration and stress in the relationship, particularly if the parents try to “correct” the child to conform to their expectations.


The Relationship Between Temperament And Sleep

Every parent is familiar with the situation in which her child demonstrates by his behavior that he “is up past his bedtime.” 

When scientists asked parents to describe this situation, some said that the child calms down, seems sleepy, falls asleep on his own, or asks directly or indirectly to go to bed. Other parents said that their child in this situation “climbs the walls,” “is a crybaby,” “is nervous and unhappy with everything,” “doesn’t respond to what he’s told,” or “simply does annoying things.”

Clearly, young children react to tiredness in significantly different ways. 

A state of fatigue is not necessarily expressed by decreased activity and obvious sleepiness.

Sometimes the symptoms can be just the opposite. 

Some of the typical “negative” behaviors of the tired child are compatible with general patterns that characterize behavior disorders.

Much evidence points to a strong correlation between sleep and the development of the child’s personality traits. 

Studies have shown that a baby who suffers from sleep disorders (difficulty falling asleep, for example, or many awakenings during the night) tends to be “more difficult” in other behavioral domains. 

In a study conducted in several sleep laboratories, scientists compared a group of nine- to twenty-four-month-old babies whose parents had come for a consultation about their children’s sleep problems with a control group of babies without sleep disorder – not surprisingly, what they found is significant differences in the traits that the mothers attributed to babies. 

The mothers completed a temperament questionnaire, which is a sort of “personality” test for young children.

The mothers rated their degree of agreement with such sentences as “The child agrees to be dressed and undressed without protesting,” “The child responds strongly (screams, yells) when frustrated,” and “The child sits quietly when waiting to eat.” 

In general, the mothers of babies with sleep problems described them as more demanding, complaining, annoying, negatively sensitive to different stimuli, and difficult to adapt to different situations, as compared with babies without sleep problems.

One of the traits measured in the temperament questionnaire is the degree of sensitivity or responsivity of the baby to different sensory stimuli (noise, temperature, taste, smell). 

Some babies are very sensitive to any kind of sensory stimulus, and others are sensitive only to a specific type of sensation—for example, those who recoil from skin contact. 

A wide range of babies do not respond in an outstanding way to sensory stimuli.

One of the hypotheses that the researcher William Carey examined in 1974 was that babies who suffer from hypersensitivity to sensory stimuli would tend to develop sleep difficulties.

Carey’s findings supported the hypothesis, and he claimed that the heightened sensitivity to sensory stimuli is hereditary. 

In order to fall asleep, the baby has to disassociate himself from the external environment and stop responding to people, noise, light, and temperature, and to disassociate from internal signals as well, such as pain, discomfort, and hunger. This ability to disassociate is most critical for maintaining uninterrupted sleep and for preventing awakenings in response to various stimuli. 

A baby who is sensitive from birth to any internal or external stimulus will have trouble disassociating from environmental stimuli, which will interfere with his ability to relax and fall asleep easily and will cause him to awaken easily and frequently over the course of the night. 

This correlation between sleep and behavior continues throughout later childhood. 

Studies that examined school-aged children found a correlation between sleep disorders and problems with behavior and more general adaptation. 

Actually, sleep disorders serve as a sensitive barometer of general adaptation problems among children and adults. 

Sleep disorders are a prominent sign of stress and anxiety, depression, and adaptation problems. Sleep problems are so prevalent in some behavior or emotional disorders that they have been included in diagnostic criteria.

One factor that strengthens a diagnosis of anxiety disorders in a child, for example, is the presence of a sleep disorder.

The close correlation between sleep disorders and behavior problems in children can be explained in a number of ways. 

Perhaps a child born with a tendency toward problematic behavior develops sleep problems as well, as a result.  At the same time, it is reasonable to believe that significant sleep problems will lead to insufficient sleep or sleep deprivation, which may cause the child to be nervous, impatient, and harder to manage. 

In addition, a third cause, such as incompatible parenting patterns, may provoke or aggravate both behavior problems and sleep difficulties. 

In treatment centers, scientists frequently come across babies or young children who are described by their parents as hyperactive. 

The parents use this term casually, but professionals use it to diagnose a condition—the professional term is attention deficit hyperactivity disorder— that occurs only in older children. 

These babies are described as especially active and restless and are said to demand attention and seek stimuli constantly. 

Often parents associate their child’s sleep difficulties with his wakeful restlessness. Occasionally a parent says something like, “This boy has a turbo engine and he cannot shut it down at bedtime,” or “He is like the Energizer bunny; he keeps going and going and going.” 

Although hyperactivity is diagnosed at a later age, there is evidence that most hyperactive children were overactive, restless babies, with difficult temperaments.

Again, we face a chicken-or-egg question: are these babies unable to sleep like “normal” babies because they are unusually active, or does their sleep problem underlie their “hyperactivity”? 

In many cases sleep disruption appears to lead to “hyperactive” behavior patterns, even though no research has directly confirmed this fact.

More and more evidence demonstrates that lack of sleep may bring on behavior that resembles that of a hyperactive child. 

From an intuitive perspective we can all recall methods we use to keep ourselves awake when we are tired. 

These methods include increasing our activity, fidgeting, fiddling with our hands or our facial muscles, and similar strategies. 

This pattern contradicts the expectation that the tired child will relax and slow down. 

The clinical literature has documented certain cases in which significant sleep problems have been found to lead to “hyperactive” behavior patterns and later to a wrong diagnosis and treatment.

It is of utmost importance to examine the possibility that the sleep disorder is the source and not the outcome of the “hyperactivity.” 

In the event that a sleep disorder exists, it should be treated before treating the disorders that result from it. 

In some cases treating the sleep disorder may spare the child from receiving unnecessary medication like Ritalin, which is the most prescribed chemical response to children’s behavioral problems.

An erroneous interpretation of a child’s behavior can also result when she responds to a sleep disorder with heightened tiredness, indifference, and lack of interest in the environment. This pattern may be interpreted as depression, and sleep difficulties can be seen as the result of that condition. 

As the professional literature reveals, such an erroneous diagnosis can result in a failure to detect and treat a primary sleep disorder, as well as mistaken treatment for depression. 

Case studies have shown that when the problem is diagnosed correctly as a primary sleep disorder and treated accordingly, there is a parallel improvement in sleep and disappearance of the “depressive” symptoms.


Intellectual Development

Assessing intelligence in infancy is a very complex task. 

Tests used on infants to assess early mental abilities that could be considered components of intelligence have generally failed to predict intelligence or cognitive abilities and achievements in later ages. 

The research on the relation between sleep and intellectual development has been hampered by our limited capacity to assess intelligence in infants. 

Efforts to study this issue have failed to provide a clear picture of the situation, and we need to call upon additional studies on older children and adults to help us consider the issue more systematically.

Scientists from the University of Connecticut in Evelyn Thoman’s group, which has contributed significantly to the field of the study of infant sleep, examined this question. They followed sleep of newborns over the course of their first two days of life and examined their development at the age of six months. 

Special recording devices documented the babies’ sleep in hospital bassinets after birth. 

The scientists then tested the mental, motor, and perceptual abilities of the babies at the age of six months, using the Bayley Test. 

They found a correlation between sleep measures of the newborns on their first day of life and their development six months later. 

Some scientists found a correlation between sleep disorders in infancy, especially those that are caused by respiratory problems, and possible shortfalls in intellectual development and academic achievements at a later age. 

Other studies, however, found no comprehensible correlation between sleep and later mental function.

Studies on older children and adults have shown that sleep disorders or insufficient sleep primarily interfere with cognitive abilities associated with attention and concentration. 

That is to say that the ability to focus on certain stimuli for extended time deteriorates. 

People who don’t get enough sleep react more slowly and make more mistakes on tasks that demand attention and continuous concentration. Although the question of sleep and attention has not been directly studied in infants, some support for their correlation comes from indirect approaches. 

For example, mothers described their babies (aged nine to twenty-four months) who suffered from sleep problems as having trouble concentrating on play or a particular activity for an extended length of time, and as easily distracted by other stimuli.

In another recent study, sleep scientists examined the relationship between sleep patterns and learning skills, concentration, and attention among school-aged children. 

The sleep patterns of the children were examined objectively by using sleep watches, and their learning functions were examined by computerized tests. 

Similar to the results in studies of adults, they found that children whose quality of sleep deteriorated (as manifested by many or lengthy awakenings from sleep during the night) also had decreased attention abilities. 

These findings support the assumption that these critical functions for learning and academic achievement are adversely affected by sleep disorders among children. 

Furthermore, recent studies have shown that if “normal” children are requested to shorten their sleep for experimental purposes, they suffer negative consequences, and their learning and attention abilities are significantly compromised.

On the basis of what we have learned about older children and adults and from the limited information on infants, it is fair to conclude that the intellectual abilities of infants are challenged by disrupted or insufficient sleep


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3 Tips to Teach Your child How to Read

 

3 Tips to Teach Your child How to Read


3 Tips to Teach Your child How to Read

By: ChildrenLearningReading.com .

3 Tips to Teach Your child How to Read-Learning to read at a young age is important for the development of the child. It helps them develop a better understand of their surroundings, allows them to gather information from printed materials, and provides them with a wonderful source of entertainment when they read stories and rhymes. Children develop at different rates, and some children will develop reading skills quicker than other children; however, what's important is that as the parent, you are keenly aware of your child's maturity and reading level to provide them with appropriate books and activities to help them improve.

As parents, you are the most important teacher for your children. You will introduce your child to books and reading. Below we have some tips to help you teach your child to read.

Teach Your Child How to Read Tip #1

Teach your child alphabet letters and sounds at the same time. Studies have shown that children learn best when they are taught the letter names and letter sounds at the same time. In one study, 58 preschool children were randomly assigned to receive instructions in letter names and sounds, letter sound only, or numbers (control group). The results of this study are consistent with past research results in that it found children receiving letter name and sound instruction were most likely to learn the sounds of letters whose names included cues to their sounds. [1]

When teaching your child the letter sounds, have them slowly trace the letter, while saying the sound of the letter at the same time. For example, if you were teaching your child the letter "A", you would say:

"The letter A makes the /A/ (ah) sound."

Then have your child say the /A/ sound while tracing the letter with his or her index finger.

Teaching a Child How to Read Tip #2

When teaching your child to read, always emphasize with them that the proper reading order should be from left to right, and top to bottom. To adults, this may seem so basic that anyone should know it. However, our children are not born with the knowledge that printed text should be read from left to right and top to bottom, and this is why you'll sometimes see children reading from right to left instead - because they were never explicitly taught to read from left to right. When teaching your child how to read, always emphasize this point with them.

Teach Your Child How to Read Tip #3

Teach final consonant blends first. Teaching words such "at" and "and" can lead your child directly to learning words that rhyme with these. For example, for "at", you can have:

Lat
Pat
Mat
Cat
Sat
Bat
Spat
Chat

For "and", you can have these rhyming words:

Sand
Band
Land
Hand
Stand
Bland
Brand
Grand
and so on...

You can start teaching blends once your child has learned the sounds of some consonants and short vowel sounds. You don't need to wait until your child has mastered the sounds of all the letters before teaching blends.

Learning to read is a long process, but it doesn't have to be a difficult process. Broken down into intuitive and logical steps, a child as young as two years old can learn to read, and older children can accomplish even more.

>> Click here to for a simple, step-by-step program that can help your child learn to read, and watch a video of a 2 year old child reading

Your custom keto diet

 

custom keto diet

Your custom keto diet : KetoDiet Benefits

 Your custom keto diet-Recently, the keto diet has become extremely popular for its health benefits such as weight loss and preventing disease. The keto diet can be hugely beneficial, but how does it work to provide these benefits?

 Whatis the Keto Diet?

 You may have heard of the high-protein, low-carbohydrate Atkins diet. The keto diet keeps carbohydrate levels low, but instead of ramping up the amount of protein in your diet, the keto diet increases the amount of fat. A typical keto diet aims for meals with 75% fat, 20% protein, and 5% carbohydrate. Eating a high-fat diet can still mean eating healthy. Keto diet menu items often include seafood, meat, dairy products, eggs, vegetables, and nuts. With the increased popularity of the keto diet, keto recipes are widely available.: your custom keto diet

 

 HowDoes the Keto Diet Work?

 It might seem counterintuitive that adding more fat to your diet can lead to weight loss. Normally, your diet is high in carbohydrates, which are broken down into glucose, or blood sugar, for use as energy. As glucose enters your bloodstream, your body releases insulin to store excess glucose as fat. The more carbohydrates, the more glucose. The more glucose, the more insulin, and the more insulin, the more fat.: your custom keto diet

 

 The keto diet takes advantage of the fact that when your meals are high-fat and low-carbohydrate, there is no insulin spike, and you don't add to your fat reserves. Instead, fat from diet and stored fat are broken down to ketones ("keto" is short for "ketogenic" producing ketones). Like glucose, ketones can be used for energy, keeping your body running without increasing blood sugar or putting on excess fat. The benefits of the keto diet can be huge.

 

 Weight Loss 

Overall, the keto diet is an excellent way to burn fat and lose weight. Eating fewer carbohydrates suppresses appetite, and studies have shown that keto diet participants eat fewer calories overall because of this. Burning fat for energy can lead to rapid weight loss.

 Reduced Blood Sugar and Insulin

 Since carbohydrate intake is limited, blood sugar and insulin levels are lowered. This is particularly important for people with type 2 diabetes, which causes a buildup of glucose in the bloodstream. The keto diet can be used to reduce or eliminate the need for diabetic insulin injections.

 

 Reduced Triglycerides

 Fat subunit molecules called triglycerides normally circulate in your bloodstream. High levels of triglycerides are a significant risk factor in the development of heart disease. In the keto diet, because fat is being burned for energy, the number of triglyceride molecules in the bloodstream decreases, reducing the risk of heart disease.

 Improved Cholesterol

 "Bad" (LDL) cholesterol is another risk factor for heart disease. Too much bad cholesterol in your bloodstream builds up in your arteries, narrowing them and causing atherosclerosis, a type of heart disease. The keto diet reduces bad cholesterol levels while increasing the level of "good" (HDL) cholesterol in your body.

 Summary

 The keto diet provides many health benefits. This diet can not only help you quickly lose weight, but can also improve your overall health and help prevent disease.: your custom keto diet


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 The Ketogenic diet refers to a form of dieting where high fats, adequate protein and low carbs are consumed. Its aim is to deplete the body's glycogen reserves so that it relies on fat and protein for energy. The body then undergoes ketosis, which is a metabolic state in which your liver produces a high number of ketones as an alternative fuel source for the brain. This form of dieting is quite popular, with dozens of pictures showing before and after results circulating all over social media. These are some benefits of the keto diet and how it may help in achieving your goals.  

 Weight Loss 

 Several studies have shown that people on a high fat, low carb diet burn fat at a faster rate than those with a high carb, low fat diet. This is primarily because lower insulin levels caused by the low carb diet (keto), help to remove excess water from the body. During ketosis, you experience reduced levels of hunger, which can be extremely beneficial in controlling caloric intake, promoting overall weight loss. It has been noted that low carb diets are also effective in reducing visceral fat, primarily stored in the abdominal cavity.  

 

Mental Performance 

 The ketones produced from a low carb diet are a much more efficient source of energy than glucose. Studies have indicated that they can improve cognitive impairment and even help with diseases such as Alzheimer's and Parkinson's. The high-fat diet helps to support the balance of essential omega 3s and omega 6s which are vital for optimal brain function. Additionally, ketosis is able to boost mitochondria production and adenosine triphosphate within the brain's memory cells, thereby improving mental performance and clarity.  

 

Reduced risk of Chronic Disease 

 

A ketogenic diet can boost the body's defense against a variety of conditions. By reducing inflammation, and improving mitochondrial function, it can help to mitigate the risk of developing several chronic diseases. Cancer cells typically possess abnormal mitochondria, which need an increased supply of glycogen. Ketosis allows for normal cells to be fed while starving the cancer cells, as they are unable to utilize the ketones for energy because of their dysfunctional mitochondria.  

 

Improved Blood Pressure 

 

High blood pressure significantly increases the risk of several diseases and is a leading cause of deaths worldwide. A low-carb diet has been proven to be more effective than a low-fat diet in reducing blood pressure. In fact, some claim that it is just as effective as taking pills. This combined with the weight loss derived from a ketogenic diet, is sure to vastly improve cardiovascular health and function.  

 

It has been proven by numerous studies in the realm of nutrition science, that this form of dieting can have a very positive impact on your overall health and bodily function. As long as you can find a way to maintain the discipline, the rewards are abundant. For those that have not been able to gain many results from traditional methods, the keto approach is definitely something worth considering.  

 References: 

 medium.com/@gschmaus/the-ketogenic-diet-and-chronic-disease-3695b2275edd 

 

healthline.com/nutrition/10-benefits-of-low-carb-ketogenic-diets#section7 

 

drjockers.com/benefits-ketogenic-diet/ 

 

medicalnewstoday.com/articles/319196.php 


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100 Weight Loss Tips

 

100 Weight Loss Tips

100 Weight Loss Tips

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100 Weight Loss Tips

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100 Weight Loss Tips-There was also a time when the thought of losing weight didn't even occur in our society, people ate what mom cooked for dinner and they went to work.  The difference in that society and today's society is that work was not behind a computer screen, but on their feet in the fields or on a warehouse floor.  People worked physically because that was the only way to work, in fact, that's why it was called work!  It was often during this time that people could eat anything they wanted because they were burning much more calories than what they consumed.

But, like all good things, that too has passed and the technology of today's world has left us in one condition – an overweight one.  Our life styles have changed so drastically and our comforts have increased tenfold.  As they say, every rose has its thorn and for our society our desire to have comfortable lives and to work less has begun to show around the waistline.

The bad thing about all of this is the more weight you gain, the more dangerous it becomes.  Extra weight spells illness, whether it is in the form of diabetes or a heart condition, it's bound to show up if you don't do something about it.  You have to be proactive in weight gain and you have to work it off until it gets to a point where you no longer have control.  It's not necessarily about being toned and sculpted, but at a weight that is not life threatening.  You can work on the abs later, right now you just need to shed some extra body fat. As society realizes what is happening and that we are overweight as a whole, people are trying to play catch up and work from behind.  They are trying to lose weight and live a healthier lifestyle.

This eBook is your guide to losing that first ten pounds that we all struggle with.  It's amazing what little changes in your life can add up to you losing ten pounds and they all revolve around eating right and getting your body moving.

 Weight loss beginning with what you drink

First and foremost, people don't realize that what they drink is the first step in losing that first 10 pounds.  In fact, most people don't know that when they feel hungry, they may actually be dehydrated and they are really thirsty, not hungry.  Water is remarkable as well.  Over 66% of your body weight is nothing but water.  This is also why water plays an important role in weight control.  So tip #1 is:

Drink plenty of water.  It is recommended that you drink 8 glasses per day, but that may take you some time to work up to.  Your body needs a whole lot of water.  Water doesn't just flush all the toxins out of your body, but it makes you feel better and healthier.  When you drink a lot of water you just begin to feel fit and this is the motivation you need to lose weight. 

The best thing about water is you can drink as much as you want because it has no calories at all.  When you're drinking a lot of water, you eat less as well because you won't feel as though you are starving to death.  Remember, if you feel hungry, try drinking a glass of water first and you'll realize you were probably just dehydrated and not hungry at all.

The whole 8 glasses a day rule is really something you should strive for.  The best way to do this and to measure your water intake is to buy a jug from the drug store or grocery store that is designed to hold exactly 8 glasses of water.  These are great weight loss tools because you can fill them up, freeze them and as it melts throughout the day you have fresh and cold water.  Or, if you don't mind your water room temperature you can drink it that way as well.  All that matters is that you're getting in the water your body needs.

 

Tip #2: Start off your day with a fresh, clean glass of water.  As soon as you get up in the morning, drink one down.  This will help your body to get going because it won't be fighting through dehydration.  Also, after you drink a glass of water you won't need to eat such a large breakfast.  A glass of water wakes up all the digestive juices in your body and gets it well lubricated.  You can always have your morning coffee or tea, but be sure to have a glass of water afterwards.  Caffeine dehydrates you and you want to ward off dehydration.

 

Tip #3: Drink a glass of water before you sit down to eat.  Water will naturally make you feel fuller so you don't have to eat as much food.    

 

Tip #4: Have a glass of water while you eat as well.  Take a drink after each bite and you will feel full more quickly so you can leave the table feeling satisfied without feeling bloated.  Drinking water while you eat will also help your food to settle more quickly, which also helps you to feel full faster.

 

Tip #5: Do your best to stay away from soda.  All sodas are sweetened with lots of sugar.  The more you can cut out of your diet the better.  Also, diet soda is still soda.  It may not have as much sugar, but it has other chemicals and components that are not good for your body either.  If you drink a soda, counteract it with a glass of water.  Remember, caffeine dehydrates you as well.  Decaffeinated sodas still have caffeine in small amounts as well and just as much sugar, so they are not much healthier either.

 

Tip #6: Fruit juice isn't as healthy as most people think either.  Juice actually has a lot of sugar in it as well.  If you are craving a glass of juice, drink fresh fruit juice instead of juice that has artificial flavors and coloring.  It is even better if you can make your own fruit juice. Just be sure not to add too much sugar which adds to the calories. Instead of drink fruit juice, eat more fruit.  Fruit provides your body with much needed fiber as well as vitamins. 

 

Tip #7: Go easy on the tea and coffee.  They are pretty much harmless if you don't add a lot of cream and sugar to them.  It is the cream and sugar that becomes fattening.  Think of it this way, when you have a cup of coffee or tea with cream and two cubes of sugar, you are essentially eating a piece of chocolate cake every time.  Now think of how many pieces of cake you are eating when you have a Venti Starbucks Latte – yikes.

 

Tip #8: If you must have your tea and coffee, try to drink it black.  Black tea or coffee actually has health benefits to it as long as you counteract the caffeine in your body with a nice big glass of water.  Caffeine is also not good for you because it affects functions in your body, like your metabolism. 

Another type of tea that you can drink freely is green tea.  Green tea has been used as a medicine in China for over 4,000 years.  It aids the digestive system and can help ease an overly full stomach and it has been linked to a reduction in cancer risk.

 

Tip #9: If you can say no to alcohol, then that is best.  Alcohol beverages are not exactly good for you, although a glass of red wine does have heart benefits, most are just fattening.  Beer is especially fattening.  Cocktails are fattening depending on what they are made of.  For instance, whiskey and Coke.  The whiskey may not be fattening, but the Coke definitely is.  Plus, after a few drinks most people get the munchies and when you're feeling a little inebriated and hungry you won't be able to make rational decisions regarding your diet and it's usually late at night, just before you pass out from a night of drinking, that you overeat.  The overall combination is just not a good one.

 

Tip #10: If you must have alcohol, try dry wine.  Dry wine is better than your sweet wines, because sweet wines have more sugar!  Dry wines have sugar, but most of it has been fermented away into alcohol and from a weight gaining perspective, dry is better.

 

Tip #11: Another word on coffee, that is not necessarily bad, but more interesting than anything.  Some people have reported that when they drank black coffee before exercising, they lost more weight.  There's no scientific proof to back this, but nutritionists believe it may be caused by the body being forced to depend on fat for fuel.  Hey, it's worth trying if you can stand black coffee.  Just remember to drink plenty of water during your exercise!

 

Tip #12: Avoid drinking excessive amounts of coffee, as it desensitizes your body to the natural fat burning effects that caffeine has.  One or two cups (if the day's really slow to get started) max.

 eating well and losing the pounds

Okay, when most people think about losing weight and eating, they think about dieting.  Well, unfortunately, all of the fad diets out there tend to cause people to gain weight.  Why?  Because they starve them to death and the person eventually breaks down and eats everything in sight because they are so darn hungry.  They also deprive them of the foods that they love.  This is not a way to lose weight, nor is it a way to live. You only cause yourself stress, which actually causes you to gain weight! 

So, in eating right there a few tips that you can follow each and every day and they're not going to deprive you of the foods that you love, but treat those foods as luxury items so you enjoy them that much more.

 

Tip #13: Eat fresh fruit and vegetables that have high water content.  These are foods like tomatoes, watermelons, cantaloupe, kiwi, grapes – you get the idea.  All of those fresh and flavorful juicy fruits and veggies are good for you.  These items contain about 90 to 95% water, so you can eat a lot of these and they will fill you up without adding on the pounds.

 

Tip #14: Eat fresh fruit instead of processed fruit.  Anything that is processed as more sugar.  Processed and canned fruits also do not have as much fiber as fresh fruits.

 

Tip #15: Increase your fiber intake as much as you can.  This usually means eating more fruits and veggies.

 

Tip #16: Veggies are your friends when it comes to shedding pounds.  There are tons of options here and you may even want to try some you haven't had in the past.  The leafy green varieties are the best and you always want to work in a salad when you can.  Salads are packed with nutrients as long as you don't pour too much dressing on and load them with too much cheese.  The leafy greens also have a lot of natural water.

 

Tip #17: Be intelligent about what you eat.  Don't eat just to eat.  Animals eat on instinct; people eat when they know their body really needs it.  Don't be an impulse eater.

 

Tip #18: Watch everything you consume from the food itself to what you top it with.  Garnishments and condiments can sabotage a healthy meal because they are typically high in fat.

 

Tip #19: Get a handle on the sweet tooth.  This doesn't mean you can't have your sweets; just don't eat them as a meal.  Always remember that these sweets end up adding to an area that you don't want them to add to. Don't deprive yourself either though, because then you'll eat twice as many as you should.

 

Tip #20: Set meal times and stick to them.  Try to have your meals at specific times and eat them at that time.  An eating pattern will help you to control what you eat and when you eat it.  Also, it really is better to have 5 small meals a day rather than just one or two huge meals.  Just eating once a day makes your body feel as though it is starving, which packs on fat instead of using it as fuel. Also, don't wait until your starving to eat.  This only makes you overeat until you're stuffed.

 

Tip #21: Eat only when you are hungry.  Be sure to drink a glass of water first to determine if you really are hungry or if you are really thirsty.  Many people have the tendency to eat when they see food.  It doesn't mean they are hungry; they just want to eat it.  Don't eat anything you're offered unless you really are hungry.  If you feel you must eat it out of being polite, just nibble, don't have a meal.

 

Tip #22: Try not to snack between meals, but if you must have a snack make sure it is a healthy one.  If you travel a lot try to find healthy snacks and not junk food.

Tip #23: Veggies make great snacks.  They can get you through the hunger pangs if you are having them.  Carrots are great because they satisfy hunger and they are packed with nutrients.

 

Tip #24: Counting calories is a good idea for those must have food items.  If it is a packaged food item, then it will have the calories on the packaging.  Be sure to pay attention to serving sizes in terms of calories as well.  An Otis Spunkmeyer muffin is intended to be two servings, so you have to double the calories listed.  This is where food producers get tricky and you can't fall in their trap. 

 

Tip #25: Work off the extra calories by the end of the week.  If you feel you have splurged too much this week, be sure to get to the gym or go walking a little longer to work off those extra calories you have consumed.

 

Tip #26:  Stay away from all things fried.  If it is breaded, it is better that it is baked.  Fried foods are immersed in fat and oil.  Even after the excess has oil has been drained away, there is still oil absorbed into the food item itself. 

 

Tip #27: Don't skip meals.  You should have, at the very least, three meals a day, but preferably five small meals. This will keep you from getting hungry during the day and overeating out of starvation.

 

Tip #28: Just like fruits, fresh vegetables are better than those that are canned.  It is even better if you can eat your veggies raw.  When you cook them, you cook away the nutrients.  If you must cook them, try to boil them to the point that there is still some crispness to them.  Also, don't soak them in butter.  If you can buy organic and pesticide free veggies, that is even better.

 

Tip #29: Don't eat more than one egg per day.  It is best if you can reduce your egg intake to three a week.

 

Tip #30: Chocolates should be treated as luxury items.  Buy the good stuff and only eat them every once in awhile.  If you really savor each morsel, you'll experience that much more joy in eating them and they will taste even better.

 

Tip #31: Eat foods from all of the food groups each day.  This is a great way to ensure you are getting all the nutrients your body needs and it helps to ward off any diet deficiencies.  Also, don't eat the same foods all the time.  Experiment so that you don't get bored with same old diet.

 

Tip #32: Try to eat breakfast within an hour of waking up.  This is the best way to give your body the jump start it needs.  Don't wait until you are really hungry.  Breakfast is important, but you don't need to stuff yourself.  The idea is that you're breaking the fast from not easting all night. 

 

Tip #33: Your diet should include all aspects of the food groups including carbohydrates.  In fact, your diet needs to be about 50-55% carbs.  Carbs are a great source of energy.  Those diets that prohibit carbohydrates are actually harming you and only making you crave them that much more.  Your diet should cause you to be deficient in anything.

 

Tip #34: Proteins should make up only 25-30% of your diet.  Far too much emphasis is put on meat as the main part of your meal.  In actuality, it should be considered more of a side dish rather than the main course.

 

Tip #35: Fats should make up 15-20% of your meal.  This is really all the fat your body needs.  A lot of this is going to be in your diet in the form of cream, sugar and the like. 

 

Tip #36: Eat more white meat than red meat.  White meat includes chicken, fish and some other fowl.  Red meat includes beef and pork.

 

Tip #37: Try to go as vegetarian as you can.  This really is a healthier lifestyle, even if you can't cut meat out completely.  The more fruits and veggies you can eat the better.  The more meat you cut out, the more fat you can cut out of your diet as well.  However, protein is important, so be certain that your option allows you to maintain good protein levels.

 

Tip #38: White bread is good, but high fiber multigrain breads are much better.  These breads are another way to add more fiber to your diet and they also have a good protein level.

 

Tip #39: Pork does not assist in weight loss in any way. The less pork you eat, the better off you will be when trying to lose weight.  Pork has a high fat content and includes food items such as bacon, ham and sausage.

 

Tip #40: Limit your sugar intake as much as possible.  If you must have sweetener in your coffee and tea, try to find an artificial sweetener that you don't mind the taste of.  However, these things are not all that healthy either and should be limited as well.

 

Tip #41: Try grazing five to six times a day.  These are those small meals we discussed earlier.  Some people lose weight better when they never feel hungry and grazing on healthy food items can do this for you.  Plus, it keeps your metabolism working, which will burn fat naturally.

 

Tip #42: Don't worry about cheating, but don't cheat for a meal.  Eat sweets and your favorite cheat food for the flavor only.  If you want dessert after dinner, share one with the whole family.  You'll get the flavor, but not the pounds.

 

Tip #43: Watch your fat intake.  Each fat gram is 9 calories.  If you know your total calories then you can figure the amount of fat in those items. 

 

Tip #44: Take it easy on the salt and try to cut what you use in half.  Salt is one of the main causes of obesity.

Lose weight by changing how you cook

Here are a few tips that will help you to lose those first ten pounds by simply changing how you prepare your food.  How food is cooked has just as much to do with how healthy it is or is not.

 

Tip #45: Instead of frying in oil or fat, try baking those items instead.  Baking does not require all the fat and oil that frying requires and your food is not soaking in those substances while it cooks. 

 

Tip #46: Use non-stick frying pan spray so you don't use oil.  Also, pans that are non-stick don't require as much, if any oil. 

 

Tip #47: Boil vegetables instead of cooking them.  You can also steam them, as this is probably the healthiest way to eat foods like cabbages, cauliflower, broccoli and carrots.

 

Tip #48: Be leery of no fat and low fat food items.  There are many of these food items on the market, but they are not exactly healthy.  Many of these food items use some sort of chemical or carbohydrate to sweeten them so that they taste better.  However, the body turns these chemicals and carbohydrates into sugar in the body, which means they are still getting turned into fat.

 

Tip #49: Don't fall victim to crash diets.  These are bad for you and do more harm than good in the long run.  The short term results are typically that you will lose a few pounds, but once you give them up then everything comes back and your weight is worse the second time around.  You cannot survive on a crash diet and you eventually get to a point where you have to give it up. 

 

Tip #50: Chew your food at least 8 to 12 times whether it is liquid food, sweets or ice cream.  This adds saliva to the food that digests the sugar. When food isn't eaten properly and is just swallowed, you fill your stomach with food that isn't ready to be digested and it then does not yield the health benefits that you need.

 

Tip #51: When you are cooking with oil, use a good Extra Virgin Olive Oil.  It is more expensive than vegetable oil, but the health benefits are much better and it is worth the cost.  Olive oil has been associated with a reduced risk in coronary heart disease and helps to increase the elasticity of the arterial walls which reduces the chance for heart attack and stroke. 

 Exercising to lose weight

There are two things that you must do to lose weight and one of those we have already covered pretty extensively and that is to eat right and fill your body with good, clean water.  The other thing you have to do is get your body moving.  You don't have to purchase a gym membership to get exercise.  In fact, there are several things you can do on a daily basis that will help to kick start your body into losing weight and there are several exercises you can do on your own to lose weight.

 

Tip #52: When you begin working out, whether at home or in a gym, don't be discouraged if you don't see results right away.  It takes more than a week to get your body into shape and to begin making progress.  Many people make the mistake of believing that their exercising isn't working when it just takes a little bit of time. 

If you push your body too much when you first get started exercising you can end up with injuries.  Your bones, joints and ligaments are not prepared for the exertion you are putting on them.  Don't think that if you really push yourself hard for a few workouts that you'll lose money, unfortunately the body doesn't work this way. Slow and steady wins the race when it comes to exercising.

 

Tip #53: Check your weight when you start exercising, but don't use it as a guide to how much weight you are losing.  Your weight fluctuates throughout the day.  If you check your weight every day, you may only end up getting discouraged. 

 

Tip #54: The best way to know if you're losing weight is by the fit of your clothes.  If you start to feel as though you're floating in your clothes then you know you're eating and exercising is doing you some good.  Another way to know if you're losing weight is if you can begin moving where you usually buckle your belt, of course tighter is better.

 

Tip #55:  When you periodically check your weight and the fit of your clothes, reward yourself.  Buy yourself some new running shoes or a new pair of jeans.  This will help to keep you motivated as you pursue your weight loss goals.

 

Tip #56: Take a day off from exercising to provide your body with a chance to rest and repair.  Your body needs a day off once a week.

 

Tip #57: Three days of 30 minute exercise will help you to maintain your weight, but you need at least 4 days of 30 minute exercise to begin to lose weight and 5 days a week is even better.

 

Tip #58: Collect information on exercise and easy things you can do from your own home.  There is tons of extensive research available on exercise and you can choose what will assist you the most to meet your weight loss goals.  Browse the Internet or pick up some books on health and exercise from your local bookstore or library to learn more and how to burn off the desired number of calories you are trying to burn each week.

 

Tip #59: Try to find an exercise buddy.  This should be someone who is as committed to exercising and losing weight as you are.  One of the advantages of finding a committed partner is that you have someone to keep feeling responsible to them.  The knowledge that someone is waiting on you makes it easier for you to get out of bed and go exercise with them.  You wouldn't want to stand up your exercise buddy would you?

 

Tip #60: When your body tells you it has had enough, take a break.  When you have worked out for a considerable amount of time, you will start receiving signals from your body.  This is particularly important when you are just getting started in your exercise routine. 

 

Tip #61: If you decide to increase the length of your workouts, do so gradually.  The same is true for the intensity of your workouts. 

 

Tip #62: Select an exercise routine that suits your lifestyle.  Everybody has a different lifestyle and a different profession.  There is no set time that you should or should not workout.  If you like to workout late before you go to bed because it is relaxing to you then do it.  If you like to workout early in the morning because it helps you wake up then that's great too.  Some people like to workout on their lunch break to take a break from the stress of their job or because that is the only time they have available. 

 

Tip #63:  Don't stand around, walk around.  If you can walk around then do it.  People who are pacers are actually doing themselves a lot of good because they are constantly moving.  Pacing also helps you think. 

 

Tip #64: Don't sit if you can stand.  If you can stand comfortably, you will burn more calories doing so than if you were to sit.

 

Tip #65: Don't lie down if you can sit.  Same concept as the two above.

 

Tip #66:  The couch and the television are anti-weight loss.  If you are inclined to become a couch potato, don't sit on it.  In fact, if you have to, put a not so comfortable chair in front of the television so you won't spend so much time in front of it. The same is true for the computer if you're a computer junkie.  Some people have a more comfortable chair in front of their computer than they do in front of their television.   (This is, of course, if you don't work from home and need to work hours at a time in front of your computer because your chair is very important then.)

 

Tip #67: If you have a job where you sit the whole time, stand up and stretch every half hour or so.  Most of today's jobs are in front of a computer and require you to sit.  If you have a job like this make it a point to move every so often. 

 

Tip #68: Walk around while you're on the telephone.  You'll get a good workout if it is a long conversation. 

 

Tip #69: Use the stairs instead of the elevator or escalator.  These are great conveniences, but they make us very lazy.  Also, it may be quicker to take the stairs than to wait on an elevator to open.

 

Tip #70: Quit smoking.  Smoking does not contribute to your weight exactly, but it does lead to erratic eating behaviors and increases caffeine dependence.

 

Tip #71: 10 minutes of cardio a day is good for most, you can get this by other methods than running. 

 

Tip #72: If you can't run for a physical reason, then try 15 minutes of brisk walking to keep fit.

 

Tip #73:  You can walk anywhere if you have time.  If work or the grocery store is not far away, consider walking there or riding a bike.  It may take you longer, but you're getting your workout in at the same time.

 

Tip #74: Hide the remote control from yourself.  Remote controls are also evil when it comes to losing weight.  If you didn't have a remote, you may not even turn on the television, which means you might find more active things to do.  Get up and change the channel if you don't have a remote or go for a walk instead of watching TV.

 

Tip #75: Do your own fetching.  If you need something from the kitchen, the TV channel changed, the mail or newspaper from the driveway, walk and get it yourself.  Adding a little walking to your day will do wonders for you.

 

Tip #76: Walk along or climb the escalator with it or just take the stairs.

 

Tip #77: Walk around during commercial breaks or do simple exercises like crunches or bending over and touching your toes.   Do anything to get your body moving more and to keep your blood pumping.

 

Tip #78: Turn on some music and dance.  Again, the more you get moving the better you will feel and the more weight you will lose.

 

Tip #79: If you take public transportation, get off a block before your stop and walk the remainder of the way.  This is a good way to squeeze in a walk before and after work or on the way to another destination.

 

Tip #80: Do pelvic gyrations to get your midsection in shape.  Of course, you wouldn't do these with anybody around, but they are a good step in getting your body prepared for more serious stomach crunches.  It is also good on the back muscles and keeps you loose instead of tight.

 

Tip #81: Suck in your stomach when you walk.  Walk properly, but do your best to keep that stomach tucked in.  You will soon begin to feel those muscles tightening. 

 

Tip #82: Do breathing exercises to tone your midsection.  It is amazing how breathing properly and with your entire diaphragm can actually help to tighten your abdominal muscles.  Most people breathe way too shallow as it is and oxygen is good for the brain.

 

Tip #83: Experiment with yoga.  Yoga is a great way to lose weight and reduce your stress levels.  Yoga teaches you how to control your muscles and gain more control of your individual muscles groups.

 

Tip #84: Lift weights.  Strength training burns more fat than people give it credit.  When you work on building muscle, they begin to burn fat to fuel muscles growth.  Do be aware that when you gain muscle, your scale may not be an accurate tool in determining weight loss because muscle weighs more than fat.

 

Tip #85: Massage your partner.  You can exert yourself a little bit and at the same time you will be able to complement them on the weight they have lost if they have been working out with you.

 

Tip #86: Take the stairs two at a time instead of one at a time.  This causes you to have to exert yourself more and increases your heart rate.

 

Tip #87: Take your dog on a walk.  Chances are that if you're not getting enough exercise, neither is your pet.  Or, let your dog take you on a walk.  For once in his life, let him lead you where he wants to go and as fast as he wants to get there.  It could be a good workout for the both of you.

 

Tip #88: Join a dancing class.  This could be ballroom dancing where you learn dances like the tango, salsa or fox trot.  These dances are fast paced and will get you moving.  Even slow ballroom dancing is a lot of exercise and will definitely tone your legs.  Or, you can take an aerobic dance class. How many dancers do you know that are overweight? 

 

Tip #89:  Lean against the wall so that your face is close and then use your hands to push your body away.  Do this three or four times to stretch. 

 

Tip #90: Swim whenever you can.  Swimming is a great way to get your cardio exercise and it's low to no impact on your joints, which is great for people who have osteoporosis or joint problems.

 

Tip #91: Try playing tennis or basketball.  Playing games are a great way to get into shape.  It's also more fun to workout with someone else in a competitive atmosphere.  You will be more driven to push yourself and you'll burn more calories, just don't overdo it. 

 

Tip #92: Always start your workout with a warm up of about 5-10 minutes and end with a cool down of 5-10 minutes.  Your body needs to reach a certain heart rate level before it will respond well to the rest of the workout. 

 

Tip #93: Don't carry your wireless phone or cell phone with you.  If it rings, go walk for it.  There are so many conveniences in life and we always have everything we need at our fingertips, but this is obviously bad for the waistline. 

 

Tip #94: If you're standing around, stretch your legs a bit by standing up on your toes and then gradually drop to your heals.  You can also flex your buttock muscles as well, but maybe when nobody else is looking. 

 

Tip #95: Before going to bed, undress and stare at yourself in front of the mirror.  Take note of what areas you need to improve on and what areas are your best assets.  Taking a self-inventory can keep you motivated in your workout endeavors.  Also, don't forget to complement yourself on any new muscle tone you may have or other improvements you've made.

 

Tip #96: Don't slouch in your chair.  Try to sit up straight and erect at all times.  Slouching is bad for your back and gives you a flabby figure.  Make it a point to always sit and stand with good posture.

 

Tip #97: Most people would like to target their stomachs and get rid of that area all together.  Unfortunately, we can't spot reduce.  But, one thing you can do is a breathing exercise to help tighten those stomach muscles. 

Breathe in air as strong as you can and tuck your stomach at the same time as much as you can.  Hold it for a few seconds and then slowly let it out.  Don't let it out so fast that your belly flops out.  This is not good.  Try to breathe like this whenever you think about it, about 50-60 times a day is ideal.  This will help you to lose at least an inch within 20 days or so.

 

Tip #98:  Use a chart, such as the one below to assist you in your weight loss endeavors.  This chart shows you how many calories each of these common exercises burn, based on 20 minutes.

Exercise

Calories Burned

Aerobics

200-250

Stationary Bicycling

250-300

Actual Bicycling

300-400

Running at 5-6 mph

300-350

Stairclimber

200-250

Swimming Laps

350

Brisk Walking

150-180

Weeding and Cultivating Your Garden

130-200

Sex (Yes, sex can be exercise too)

50-60

Basketball – shooting baskets to playing a game

130-250

Golf – carrying clubs, no cart

166

Golf – carrying clubs, based on 2 hours of play instead of 20 minutes

1000

Snorkeling

150-200

Water Skiing

180-200

Ice Skating – general

200-250

Cross Country Skiing, 2.5 mph, light effort

200-250

General Skiing

200-250

Scuba Diving

200-250

Whitewater rafting, kayaking or canoeing

150-200

Flag or Touch Football

250-300

Horseback Riding – Trotting

200-250

Martial Arts

300-350

Racquetball

200-250

Volleyball – 6 to 9 person team

90-120

Volleyball – Beach

25-300

Tennis – singles

250-300

Tai Chi

120-180

*Your results will depend on how much you currently weigh as well.  If you're looking for an accurate calculation based on your body weight and details of the exercise you are performing 

 

From this chart you can see that walking is a great way to get exercise.  If you're too busy to do any of the other exercises, a good walk is a good start.

 

Tip #99: Don't discourage yourself from exercising and eating right by wearing clothes that don't fit.  If you're a medium, wear a medium.  Wearing the wrong types of clothes can make you appear larger than you really are.  This includes workout wear as well.  If you wear clothes that fit now, you get to go shopping later for smaller clothes and you can sell your slightly worn larger clothes in a consignment shop or you can take them to Goodwill to be given to someone who can use them. 

 

Getting Started

Now that you understand how to get started, here's a little more information on losing weight and keeping it off and it all begins with what you eat.

Fat and weight loss is such an important aspect in our life today because we are fatter now than we have ever been.  The word "weight loss programs" will catch the attention of anybody listening in on a conversation or watching television.  In fact, that's one of the most popular keywords searched on the Internet today. 

The main reason that we are so overweight is because of our relationship with food.  In our society, we tend to concentrate on quantity.  We simply want as much as we can get instead of the best food that we can get.  Quantity always beats out quality, when it should be exactly the opposite of that. 

Once you've decided to lose weight, it can be difficult to determine where exactly you should get started.  If you have a strong resolve to get going and to lose weight, it is possible.  You just have to figure out how to say "no." 

Everybody is different.  You're not going to find another person who has the same metabolism as you or who burns fat the same way as you.  You may weigh exactly the same as a person next to you, but if you both were to start an exercise and diet program you both might not have the same results two weeks or even a month later, even if you did everything the same exact way each day.  In saying this, it's important to realize that not everybody utilizes food in the same way either.  What may cause one person to gain a pound may not do the same to another.  The same is true in losing weight.  If you're a married woman and you and your husband are working out together and let's say he gives up soda and loses five pounds from stopping his intake of soda and you don't lose one pound, that shows you that you and your husband are not necessarily going to see the same results, even if you're eating and exercising in the exact same way. 

The bottom line is that today's society has to work a lot harder than societies of the past.  Sixty years ago women and men were thin because they had to work. Manual labor was a requirement or you wouldn't be able to eat.  You had to go gather eggs from the hen house if you want eggs, you had to go milk the cows for fresh milk and you had to plow the fields to grow your vegetables.  If you wanted beef, well you had to know a little something about fattening up a calf and getting it butchered.  That's the way life was back then and technology has taken away all of this manual work.  So, instead we have to watch what we eat and we have to go make ourselves exercise.  If we don't we don't have a reason to move half the time. 

It is very important to understand that you weight loss goals are very dependent on how much you are willing to work at it.  It is the one thing in life that you have to do manual labor to achieve if you want to see results. 

Generally, people do not need to worry about weight loss until their twenties, but with the fast food lifestyle that we live today this is not necessarily the case anymore.  Many of our children are obese because they eat too much fast food and processed foods.  When you're grocery shopping for yourself and your family read the ingredients of what you are eating.  If you can't pronounce it, don't eat it.  Processed foods cause us to have cravings and cravings cause us to gain weight.  This is particularly important to understand if you are ever going to be effective at losing weight and keeping it off. 

Watching your diet alone is not going to make you lose weight though.  The proper diet has to be paired with the proper amount of exercise as well.  The solution is an exercise regiment that will give your body the exercise it needs to burn fat and calories efficiently.  If you don't move, it's like you're in hibernation and your body just packs on the pounds, particularly around your waistline. 

 

When you think about life in the past when your sweat was caused by hard work and the sun, it just makes you feel good all over.  The sun beating down on your shoulders and the strain on your muscles just makes you feel stronger all over.  There really is nothing better than working out – outside. 

But, most people have moved to the city.  The days of working on the farm are long gone for most, however, there are a few people who still get to have that glorious feeling of doing work and producing something that was real and keep the pounds off while they do it.  Seriously, if you think about it, how many farm hands, cowboys and ranchers are fat?  There aren't many.  Think about their lifestyles.  They get up, have a cup of coffee and breakfast, go to work, come in for lunch, go to work, come in for dinner and then go to bed early enough to get up in the morning and do it all over again.  In the meantime, they get good sun and fresh air and consume fresh water all day long.  It truly is a healthy lifestyle.  Unfortunately, most of us work indoors, sitting down and still eat three meals a day but have to do it so quickly you don't even get the opportunity to taste it.

It's a fact of life that people in the city don't get much exercise, unless you live in a city where you walk everywhere you go.  This means you have to put your mind to it and work at it.  You have to fit fitness into your daily schedule or you're going to be overweight and sick.  That's just the way it is.  Exercise is the best way to control obesity, it is the best way to control stress, hypertension, cardio vascular disease, and other lifestyle related illnesses.  If you can workout outside, even better.  Your body needs as much fresh air as it can get.

 

Consistency is the most important aspect of any exercise program.  If you have a goal, then if you consistently work towards that goal, you'll be able to reach it. 

Getting started is usually easy for people.  They go shopping, get some workout clothes, buy some running shoes and maybe a gym membership.  Then, they go and workout pretty steadily for a week or two. 

But, as they go, they find it harder to keep up their routine.  Their lives become more demanding and they begin to go to the gym less and less.  In other words, their gym membership goes to waste and they just stop going. 

Many people choose to workout in the evenings, but for some this routine is even harder to keep going.  If you are not completely exhausted when you get off from work, then this is a good time to go.  But, if you cannot then you may need to find a way to get there in the morning.  It will help you to get woke up and you'll be able to maintain your consistency. 

There is a misconception that exercise makes you tired, but that's not necessarily the case.  It may do this to you the first few times, but as you get fit you will find you have more energy.  Couple exercise with adequate sleep, you shouldn't have any problem getting up in the morning and getting going.  Plus, you'll be energized all day long, which will help you to make it through your workday much easier. 

Even if you don't have a gym membership, chances are that there is a sidewalk outside your house and some people may even have access to a pool.  Get up a half hour earlier, throw on the sneakers and get to walking, running, jogging or whatever your exercise of choice is.  If you have a four legged friend, they'll surely enjoy this time with you as well. 

 

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